3 weeks had gone by really fast. It felt like it was only yesterday when I picked him up at the airport. When we were in Baler, I always woke up at the middle of the night then the thought of Kev’s vation coming to an end always gives me teary eyes. After being together for 3 weeks, the day when he needs to go back home arrived (June 3, 2022). That was a really sad feeling. I tried not to cry few days before his scheduled flight but I can no longer stop my tears the night before. We were laying on the bed, cuddling each other. But after few mins, i felt that I’ll start crying so I pretended that I’ll be sleeping already and turned off the lights so he won’t see me cry. I only want him to remember my happy face. Whenever he was asking me if i’m crying, I tried my best to answer him without my voice sounding weird. But then after few minutes, he felt my tears running down my cheeks then I felt his eyes soaked with tears too.We just hugged and comforted each other that night. I told him that I don’t want him to remember me crying because it is not a sad good bye but it just just a start of us working on our next plan, which is to get married.
Being in a Long Distance Relationship is not easy. Not everyone can succeed in that kind of set up. There will be lots of sacrifices of adjustments that both of you needs to do. You’ll be living in different timezones, both of you have things to do such as attending your work, family time, friends, etc. But as long as you trust and always choose each other, distance will never be a reason for your relationship not to succeed.
Love is a choice. It is a choice that you need to make specially for those who started as an LDR couple like us. Not everyone can succeed in an LDR set up but as long as you love each other, as long as you’ll choose each other everyday even during the times where you’re experiencing problems, distance can never destroy your relationship and your love for each other.
Now we started to plan our wedding that will happen really soon and of course, we’ll be updating you guys about it.
